Tuesday, March 30, 2010

For Those Who Would Burn Down Farmville



"Their trust should be in God, who richly gives us all we need for our enjoyment."   ... 1 Timothy 6:17


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(You may have to mull this one over awhile.)

Some people at Facebook criticize their Farmville, Cafeville and survey-loving friends. You can even join "I Don't Care About your Farm, or Your Fish, or Your Park, or Your Mafia!!!" groups. When you sign-up, they appear on your friends' home pages and well, I'm sure some feelings have been hurt.

Myself? I don't generally do surveys or games at Facebook because I lack the desire. Yet I have Facebook friends who are into them, especially Farmville. Big time. You go to their wall and see little pictures of animals, candy or poker cards with hardly a photo of themselves or anyone else.

And that's the sort of thing which makes my other friends wild. You know, the way game photos can clutter up the home pages of non-gamers. Who cares that we can click "Hide" so we can make it all vanish? Many people just believe if they think games waste time, then no one should play games. Period.

And there is the problem. There is the rub.

I heard one woman say that anyone who likes any  tv reality show is being duped. Others quip that all cell phone users are rude and today's movies are all garbage.

But here is what Debra sayswe all need downtime, especially in Today's stressful world. And we all relax in different ways. My idea of fun is different (probably) than yours and what relaxes me might stress you out. 

And who am I--who is anyone--to say, "My way of relaxing is a wiser, better way than yours?"

Which of us was chosen by God to declare that reading, hiking and sewing are fine hobbies, but Farmville, reality shows and computer games are pathetic? Golf yes, but Facebook no way?

Does anyone else hear the pride in those statements?

Of course, any activity can be overdone. Anything in Life can become an obsession and whisk us away from our responsibilities. Yet even there-- it's not the hobby that's wrong, it's us. Our lack of self-control and not coming away when convicted.

De-stressing types of hobbies-- may ours allow us to relax and recharge. And may we extend grace to others whose hobbies are nothing like our own.

4 comments:

Elizabeth said...

You said it so well Debra, I personally do not care for the reality shows or facebook farms etc,but I certainly do not find fault with those that do.

Patty H. said...

said very well. I dont' get into all those things on fb but there are other things in my life that some would consider 'time wasters'. Oh! I just listened to 'the peepers' video. I love hearing those things. It is a sure sign of spring. Love is in the air!

Lisa in Texas = ) said...

Nicely said.
Lisa :o)

... Paige said...

I don't FB so much, it, like MySpace is just another way to connect without contact

Hobbies galore with me, but none so distracting that I can't do what needs to be done

Great Post