More people can identify with us when we're being honest.
I heard a wife say this while being interviewed upon her 70th wedding anniversary: "I've never told my husband what to do. I believe he can make all his own decisions" (And her husband nodded in agreement to both her statements.) Again, come on...... Never told him what to do? Never in 70 years? Isn't there some selective memory stuff going on here? And also again, those kinds of statements make the rest of us feel like we belong to the WWWC, the World's Worst Wives Club.
There is no crime in admitting you sometimes make your husband crazy. Actually? I believe the greater crime is in allowing others to believe you always do everything absolutely right and your home is constantly one amazing, blissful string of heavenly days.
True, we should aim for something like that and allow God to change us and mold us daily, but if we're not there yet, is it ok to let others think we've already arrived?
I think you already know my answer.
"Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free." ... John 3:32
(And the truth about ourselves just might help to set other peOk. While I'm still in a rather cranky mood, I'll share a pet peeve. (I hope you brought your sense of humor over here with you. You might need it, depending upon where you are on this issue.)
I roll my eyes and think not-so-nice thoughts when I hear people say things like these:
"She was a woman who never, ever complained." I mean, come on.... never? Never ever? Those kinds of statements make the rest of us regular people feel awful. Wouldn't a more valid and correct statement be, "I don't remember ever hearing her complain?" (Though I find even that would be a stretch for most human beings...)
(Speaking of a departed spouse): "We had 50 blissful years together." Really? All 50 years were blissful? I've got what I think is one of the best marriages around and even I would never say all 30 of them were blissful. Besides, saying those sorts of things tends to alienate just about every person you've ever met. Being real, generally, is more likely to help set other people free, too. Hey, you never know.)