Wednesday, July 23, 2025

A 21st Blogiversary -- Or -- This Might Change Your Life. It Changed Mine.




My 21st blogiversary is in 2 days, but this post won't leave my mind, so here you go.

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This interview with Gerald McRaney, well, shook me up. Changed me. Reminded me of how we as Christians should consistently be. I'll shorten it here:


McRaney:  "My first time on The Rockford files I had a scene to do. I'm in my little dressing room and there's a knock on the door.  I open the door and there's Jim Garner. He says, "Hey Hoss. I just want to welcome you to the show. I hope you have fun."' 

"And that was it. But that was the way that man was. I'm a day player, I'm doing one scene and he went out of his way to welcome me."

"Months later, my parents came out for a visit and I'd arranged for them to have lunch at the commisary at Universal which was a big to-do for them. And I saw that Rockford Files was shooting right across the street."

"I went to see if Jim was there, and he was, and his assistant came to the door. I said, "I just wanted to see if Jim would have a moment to say hello to my parents." 

"Well, there was an executive in there with Jim who said something like, "We don't have time." To which Jim responded, "Well, we're gonna have to make some time, aren't we?" 

"He came out and spent, like, the next hour with my parents and just kept that executive in there cooling his heels, learning some manners. And I will never forget that as long as I live. Jim was the finest gentleman I've run across in this business. He was such an outstanding man."




Oh. My. Goodness.

Today's unfriendly world needs Christians to, daily, walk in that type of excellence! We must find ways to counter-balance all those Youtube videos which say you-don't-need-friends-after-50-just-stay-in-your-cozy-home-with-your-pets-so-no-one-will-hurt-your-feelings.

And instead? It's time to break out of all our cages. To love others, sacrifice for them as Jesus told us to.


"And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony ..  Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor... Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love."
Colossians 3:14, Romans 12:10, 1 John 4:8


I believe our Country needs a Love Revival, especially all over the Internet. Oh, when will we view this online world as the mission field God meant it to be? When will we stop hiding from people, peeking our heads out only when convenient for us?

Today, maybe?






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Tom and I are nearly finished with our second rewatch of The Rockford Files (free at Amazon). We always begin with season two. It's a top level comfort show for us, like looking through a window back in Time. We love his beat-up old trailer, the taco restaurant next door, the ocean in his front yard, his dad and Rockford's sense of humor. Everything, really.


I hope you'll watch that interview with Gerald McRaney. After 40 years, the emotion in his voice is still palpable. Wow. 


21 years blogging! What an adventure, indeed. How long will I continue? Only as long as I feel Grace speaking through me.


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And as I shared at Facebook:





So! If anyone is sitting around wishing they knew of a kindness they could bestow, here's an idea.
Hope Ann is newish to Youtube and I know she'd appreciate any 'likes' and comments today. She is the sweetest thing since local honey and her last video was her best (imo). It even had a scary ending. Oh my. 😮
Please drop by and comment if you can, ok? I know she'd appreciate it so much.
Thanks!

(Thousands of ways to show compassion online exist like this.)



And what I desire to see all over Youtube? Videos with titles like, "How We Can Love Others Better." "Ways We Can Become More Excellent in Our Relationships." "How To Show People Jesus Cares For Them." "Examples of Kindness."








"It's impossible to be selfish and happy."    --- Joyce Meyer






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Please remember: My posts are always about more than they appear to be. *** "For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." ... Matthew 6:14,15

3 comments:

Betsy said...

Good Morning Debra! Your post today really touched me. Dennis and I are on a cross-country trip with our camper to see our son and our friends and church family in Spokane. The night before last found us in Buffalo, WY at the KOA. You know, the kampgrounds of america with the yellow teepee sign! I ended up talking to a couple outside the office for over an hour and a half. Our camping adventures find us meeting the best people everywhere we go. I have a havit of talking to everyone I meet. These people happened to be Christians and we had the great talk, sharing our faith journeys with each other. I think we have some new friends for life. They have invited us to stay in their driveway if we ever make it to Amarillo, TX! I believe in being nice to everyone and it breaks my heart to see the way the internet can be at times. Real life is getting to be the same way. So many have lost that compassion and care for others that we were taught as we grew up.
I love the story of Jim Garner. He always struck me as a gentleman and we have always enjoyed watching Gerald McRainey too. Thank you for the post today my friend.
Blessings and love,
Betsy

Pam said...

Happy 21st Blogiversary, Debra!! That is quite an accomplishment, my friend. I thank God for gifting you with the abilities required to create meaningful posts, over and over again. You've made me laugh, cry, question myself, and fall deeper in love with our Lord. Thank you for every single word. They all matter. Love, Pam
PS I enjoyed the story about James Garner. Wow!

Debra said...

Betsy--your comment totally brightened my day. Thank-you! I love it when someone truly gets it and lives it, too! Loved your camping story.
Pam--your comment meant so much to me. Thank-you for always understanding what I'm really trying to say and for being such a good example of a life well lived.

Thanks so much, Ladies! You are appreciated far more than you realize.