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Since early, dark, last December mornings, I've whispered to God, "I believe at least 4 good things will happen today."
Those whispers, that believing, is changing my life.
Oh, when I began doing this (this started as a Joyce Meyer idea), I thought those good things would arrive from friends, family, neighbors, acquaintances. Yet probably just 20 percent (less?) actually do.
The rest of these happy things? They come from 1.) God and 2.) from my own proactivity (which He said I sorely needed). シ
Proactive: creating or controlling a situation by causing something to happen rather than responding to it after it has happened.
Some cheerful things God brought:
Intensely sunny days after dark ones.
Cherry tomatoes from my garden until Nov. 21st (in Buffalo!)
Mornings warm enough to read outside in December and even January.
Times I knew He moved on friends' hearts to contact me.
Joyful times resulting from choosing proactivity instead of procrastination:
For the first time in 12 years, I've raked away the majority of leaves in my garden beds before Springtime(!)
On a dark, winter's day I sorted through my garden seeds, then ordered new ones via Ebay, using my Rakuten refund and spending less than $1 for each seed pack (oh, that February garden dreaming!).
The glass table top I'd ordered for our guestroom arrived.
My new, wanted-for-10-years chandelier arrived--
--and last week I had a deliriously great time filling out Valentines for friends beneath that chandelier and upon the glass table top.
I found some clothes in an under-the-bed bin I'd forgotten about.
I walked down to the Little Free Library and came home with The Illustrated Walden.
I ordered a book for a Youtuber and she emailed me saying she absolutely loves it.
No longer do I wish for a skylight near my desk: I came up with a solution using my sun-like reading lamp. (Plus, the saving of hundreds of dollars is lovely, too.)
(There's a much longer list, but you'd wonder, "Really? Those tiny things made you happy? Heh.)
Anyway, always at least 4 good things happen every. single. day. Seriously! I count them. Sometimes type them into a draft folder. I remember one Saturday when I counted 12 happy things--oh my!
Yet what most clearly shines from this lesson since December? Believing and proactivity go oh so well together. Their combination is like a recipe for miracles. An invitation. A guarantee.
How will our day feel? It's pretty much up to us.
Two important-to-me things not mentioned, above? Feeding the outdoor birds and switching-on my hearts and cross lights in the dining room window. For whatever reasons, yeah, they make me happy and too, I choose to believe they encourage my neighbors, as well.
"Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full." --- John 16:24
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Valentine's Day! A day for expressing friendship. That's what it's become for me.
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You know how sometimes a movie will stay with you for a couple days? That's how Touchback affected me. Couldn't shake it, didn't want to. Only a tiny bit of language, otherwise highly recommended.
And here's a fitting thing for Valentine's Day--
It's a brooch I made probably 25 years ago. Used to wear it around and I'd get compliments. So easy! Just hot-glued buttons and costume jewelry to a wooden heart, then hot-glued a large safety pin to the back.
Remember! With Jesus you are stronger than you think.
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"For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." ... Matthew 6:14,15
Happy Valentines Day to you too Debra. It's a beautiful day here in Omaha. We signed the lease papers for Mom this morning and I packed a bunch of boxes for her. I'm doing her laundry now and then I'll take it back later today and pack some more.
ReplyDeleteI feel blessed that I'm able to do these things for her. God does provide blessings every day if we just look for them.
Have a lovely day my friend.
Blessings and hugs,
Betsy
I really like the idea of being proactive with our lives. In all honesty, there have been times when I've allowed circumstances to color how I feel and think, but the Lord has been patient with me, and I'm learning. When I read this, I couldn't help but think if you look for the bad, you'll find it. If you look for the good, you'll find it.
ReplyDeleteDebra, I appreciate your sharing the way the Lord is working in your life. It's wonderful when He causes 4 good things to happen in a day or a dozen. Life changes for the better when we expect Him to fill us with purpose.
Happy Valentine's Day to you, my friend.